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Julia Vaya-Mai

 London (United Kingdom)
 Los Angeles (United States)
 Seattle (United States)
 Chiang Mai (Thailand)

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What if we lived in a world where we all embody our emotional and sexual intelligence, liberated from shame, guilt or confusion? We can get there by nesting in the present moment, in the here and now.  

My journey to happiness started with a quest to heal my own body, and the realization that what was experienced as physical pain was rooted in a need for emotional and spiritual healing. In my exploration of non-dualism, meditation, yoga, shamanism, conscious sexuality and different schools of Tantra, I’ve identified the profound effect that states of trust, safety and emotional intimacy have on the physical body.

The personal healing journey became a calling to share my knowledge and experience. To expand on my offering, I have been continuously adding to my education and skills – from massage and healing modalities to scientific approaches in trauma.

My main activity for the past 4 years has been Tantric Healing. While working directly with clients, I’ve also been assisting, supervising and teaching Tantric Bodywork at Tantric Journey - London’s School of Healing and Awakening. Presently I’m offering Tantric Bodywork workshops and involved in a number of professional collaborations with psychotherapists, Tantra teachers and bodyworkers.

 

TYPES OF SESSION AND FEES:

Introduction: FREE 30 min consultation via phone (audio or video)

 

COACHING SESSIONS:

Offered in-person in London or via Skype / What’s app / Zoom

60 min - £70

90 min - £90,

6 sessions - £350 (60 min), £540 (90 min) - book 5 sessions get one FREE

About Coaching Sessions

Specializing in sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality. Coaching sessions can help identify unconscious issues, patterns, and behaviors and guide to overcome them.

Coaching sessions are a good starting point for people suffering from PTSD to gain a better understanding of their issues and how to approach them. It’s perfect for people with a busy lifestyle who have scarce, sporadic time for self-work

The sessions include guidance, homework, and supervision.

Please note: coaching sessions always bring better results while combined with bodywork.

 

BODYWORK SESSIONS:

 Individual sessions:

  • 2,5h  - £250 MEN and WOMEN Trauma and emotional release session (clothes on/off, without genital touch);
  • 2,5h -  £250 MEN & WOMEN Therapeutic pelvic floor and prostate / vaginal treatment;
  • 4-5h - £350 MEN and WOMEN Tantric clothes off bodywork (including prostate, lingam massage for men and yoni massage for women for emotional release and sexual health);
  • 8h   -  £500 MEN and WOMEN (60min initial coaching session, Tantric session 4-5h, 2 x 60min follow up coaching sessions);
  • 10h - £1000 MEN and WOMEN (60 min initial coaching session, the teaching of meditation, Taoist practices to enhance sexuality, rituals to enhance intimacy, 4h bodywork session, refreshments);

Couple sessions:

  • 4-6h - £400. Profound teaching to enhance intimacy and love, meditation and practices for better sex, tantric or erotic massage techniques.

About bodywork sessions:

Techniques used in bodywork will be chosen based on clients’ needs.

The session may include: Tantric Journey massage, Emotional detox, Taoistic massage, Vortex healing, Kashmiri massage, Shamanic healing, sexual de-armoring, trauma release, empowerment of consent an boundaries, meditation, tantric rituals, work with intimacy.

My sessions are strongly influenced by non-dualistic approaches in meditation and conscious relaxation. I do not use forceful techniques and clients are invited to make a conscious choice in how deep they want to go into the release. Sessions are client-based and no actions are taken without client consent.

    

Teaching and supervision sessions

Teaching / Supervision session - 1h - £55-75

Teachings: Indian Tantra, Tao or Kashmiri Shivaism meditations, techniques for sexual sublimation, sensual massage or tantric healing bodywork.

Supervision offered for tantric healers and bodyworkers based on a case by case basis.

 

DETAILS ABOUT BOOKINGS: A non-refundable deposit is required to book a session on a bank account or via PayPal. Please note, I don't accept same-day appointments. 

 


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Phone number: +447760193337
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Locations

London, United Kingdom

W6 0PD
Fee: Tantric Journey £350
Main location

Los Angeles, United States

Fee: $500
15th - 31st September will be in few locations between LA and SF. Contact for details.

Seattle , United States

+447760193337
Fee: $450
1st-12th October 2019

Chiang Mai, Thailand

Fee: 10.000THB
December 2019 - February 2020 In Chiang Mai and near "Tao Garden" retreat centre, Doi Saket.

Testimonials

I feel deep gratitude for my time with Julia and had a truly mesmerizing, once in a lifetime experience. 

Her presence instantly provided a space of trust and openness. Julia is incredibly generous in providing time, energy and love to make you feel welcome and safe. 

I learned a lot about my body on the intellectual and more importantly physical and spiritual level and was able to feel sensations unbeknownst to me before. The massage felt deeply healing and nourishing.  

I left with a deep sense of presence and confidence. My whole body and especially my heart and yoni felt buzzing, alive, connected, activated and open.  

I  highly recommend working with Julia to everyone, curious to feel more in touch with their sensuality and sexuality and am looking forward to embarking on a deeper journey of exploration and healing with her. 
 

MG
London, UK

She:

We felt so good the last two days. My colleagues keep asking why I’m in such a great mood :) I also feel much more connected to G. since our session. As if I fell in love with him all over again. I noticed that after the session he looked at me with so much love in his eyes, I can’t remember the last time he looked at me like that. 

He:

I thought I would be very self conscious in the session but you made me feel at ease and I think I got more out of it than I expected. I also felt immediately reconnected to S. and also generally in a better mood as a result. 

Thank you so much for kickstarting this journey for us, it has already made such a difference to our relationship.

S. & G.
London, UK

Tantra seems to have become fashionable recently, with lots of people offering so-called tantric healing, most of which has nothing to do with true tantra work. But Julia is the real deal. 

She truly has the gift of healing through touch, and she supports that with a fine-tuned sensitivity, a wealth of experience and a true depth of spiritual understanding.

I have been working with Julia for years and in that time every session has been different, but always brings profound gifts. Personally I have received a deep level of spiritual, emotional and physical healing through this work. I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to meet Julia and work with her, so not only would I recommend what she does, I would consider it a blessing if you are fortunate enough to experience it for yourself.

Nick B
July 2019, London, UK

Thank you so much for today's tantric session. Felt cherished. You were very generous with your touch which enabled me to go to a place that I had given up hope of ever feeling again.

S.
June 2, 2019, Surrey, UK

This is my first experience with tantric massage session.

I tried many things before, including psychotherapy for several ‘issues’ I have.

The main reason I tried tantra, is because I wanted to connect with myself in a deep level, fast. I can only say that I didn’t expect that the session can go in such a depth and to feel so much. It’s something that has to be experienced. Words are not enough.

I left the session and for several hours later, the only word that was coming out of my mouth, was wow.

Julia is very kind and special person. I recommend her work to anyone that is ready to explore, let out and enjoy. 

V.V.
June 2019, London, UK

The main reason for me to go for Tantric healing therapy massage was because I felt my mind and body had disconnected due emotional and health problems and felt physically, mentally low on energy and confidence had shattered.  This was the point I knew a different direction was needed and this lead me to Tantric Healing Therapy were I met Julia Vaya-Mai for my first tantric massage session.

Julia calmed my nerves down straight away, as she saw I was really nervous and took the time to explain everything in regards to the session.  The session was incredible and very enlightening and the amount of effort that was put into the massage session is unbelievable. I am truly grateful for this experience and for you being so kind, gentle and friendly.

After the session I immediately felt more positive and felt more energy.  I had a very deep peaceful night sleep and in the morning after the session I woke up feeling warm and full boost of energy that I had not felt in a while.  Even though several days have passed, I still feel so much warmth and energy.

Thank you so much Julia for this enlightenment and my introduction on one's Tantric Healing path. I really do feel the blissfulness of peace and tranquillity and the calmness shift in my mind and body and I'm really looking forward to see where this enlightenment journey takes me with your guidance. Thank you so much.

Parv
London, UK

Thank you for a wonderful session. We learned so much from You and everything we learned has been deeply rewarding and is helping us on our discovery back to each other. 

Our weekend and days that have followed have been wonderful and I believe the intimate time we spent really helped reset the connection and has helped us look at each other in new ways.  

You offered a safe and gentle place to explore and your kindness at all times is a gift.

Louise & Adam, London, UK
May, 2019

Since my first session with Julia, incredible changes started happening in all areas of my life. 

I have been able to let go of some deeply rooted traumas and emotional wounds, experience increased levels of aliveness, creativity, and joy. Consequently, this had what I can only call a "miraculous" effect on all my relationships, finances and experiencing a true sense of freedom.

Julia has compassionately and lovingly guided me throughout this journey, allowing me to come to my own realizations and deeper experiences. Some long-standing (lifetime) patters of emotional turmoil and addiction were let go of in a matter of weeks, opening up possibilities for growth, new positive attitudes, thoughts, and feelings.

Since reconnecting to my body and learning to be more present, I have also learned to separate my orgasms and ejaculation, completely relinquishing the need to ejaculate. This has significantly improved my overall physical and mental health, clarity and purposeful life direction. 

I will be forever grateful to Julia for guiding me on this journey

Arturas
London, UK

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