Julia Vaya-Mai

In my practice, I encounter people from different backgrounds struggling with physical sexual dysfunctions, relationship and intimacy issues, low level of sexual energy. Regardless of the age, ethnicity, profession, beliefs and cultural background, our sexuality might be challenged at some point of our life. 

My interest in helping people with these difficulties arose from the recognition of the importance of balanced sexual energy as well as disappointment in the lack of sex education. I believe in this approach as it helped me to transit from perceiving sex as a not very pleasant, painful duty to inspiring, full of enjoyment practice that fuels my life. 

My aim is to help everyone to gain important knowledge of one’s sexual, emotional, mental and spiritual well-being, to release root causes of dysfunctions and enjoy the full potential of sexual pleasure. Connected and embodied sexuality is more than sexual pleasure - it is a gateway for spiritual growth, enhanced intuition and the fast-track to awakening.  

I use a holistic approach to help my clients to not only heal their issues but also provide the tools for further development and growth. 

I successfully help my male clients to:

• Overcome overthinking and performance anxiety;

• Reconnect within their bodies and start to feel alive and empowered again;

• Explore new ways of feeling, improving and mastering their sexual energy;

• Come out on top of erectile challenges such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and delayed ejaculation;

• Drop the grip of porn or sex addiction and find full enjoyment in real sex;

• Heal pelvic floor issues, such as incontinence, prostate cancer (prevention), prostatitis, epididymitis, neuralgias etc.;

• Release sexual and emotional traumas that cause feelings of shame, guilt, worthlessness, fears and anxiety;

• Re-balance the energy for deeper spiritual development.

• Build a deeper and more exciting connection with a partner.

I successfully help my female clients to:

• Open up the capacity to feel different types of orgasms;

• Reconnect to their body, sexuality, femininity and sensuality;

• Release sexual trauma and childhood abuse;

• Heal vaginismus, neuralgias, vulvodynia, vestibulodynia and pain during intercourse; 

• Re-balance pelvic floor muscles to heal or prevent incontinence, menstrual problems, fertility issues;

• Cultivate creativity, intuition, pleasure and spontaneity;

• Recognise their desires, needs, boundaries and learn to express them.

• Build a deeper and more exciting connection with a partner.

MY BIO:

My journey to happiness started with a quest to heal my own body, and the realization that what was experienced as physical pain was rooted in a need for emotional and spiritual healing. In my exploration of non-dualism, meditation, yoga, shamanism, conscious sexuality and different schools of Tantra, I’ve identified the profound effect that states of trust, safety and emotional intimacy have on the physical body.

The personal healing journey became a calling to share my knowledge and experience. To expand on my offering, I have been continuously adding to my education and skills – from massage and healing modalities to scientific approaches in trauma.

My main activity for the past 4 years has been Tantric Healing. While working directly with clients, I’ve also been teaching Tantric Bodywork. Presently I’m offering Tantric Bodywork workshops and involved in a number of professional collaborations with psychotherapists, Tantra teachers and bodyworkers.

What if we lived in a world where we all embody our emotional and sexual intelligence, liberated from shame, guilt or confusion? We can get there by nesting in the present moment, in the here and now.  
 

TYPES OF SESSION AND FEES:

INTRODUCTION: FREE 30 min consultation via phone (audio or video)

COACHING SESSIONS:

Offered in-person in London or via Skype / What’s app / Zoom

60 min - £95

90 min - £110

6 sessions - £475 (60 min), £550 (90 min) - book 5 sessions get one FREE. Validity - 6 months.

About Coaching Sessions

Specializing in sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality. Coaching sessions can help identify unconscious issues, patterns, and behaviours and guide to overcome them.

Coaching sessions are a good starting point for people suffering from PTSD to gain a better understanding of their issues and how to approach them. It’s perfect for people with a busy lifestyle who have scarce, sporadic time for self-work

The sessions include guidance, homework, and supervision.

Please note: coaching sessions always bring better results while combined with bodywork.

BODYWORK SESSIONS:

 Individual sessions:

• 2,5h  - £300 MEN and WOMEN Trauma and emotional release session (clothes on/off, without genital touch);
• 2,5h -  £300 MEN & WOMEN Therapeutic pelvic floor and prostate / vaginal treatment;
• 4-5h - £450 MEN and WOMEN Tantric clothes off bodywork (including prostate, lingam massage for men and yoni massage for women for emotional release and sexual health);
• 8h   -  £600 MEN and WOMEN (60min initial coaching session, Tantric session 4-5h, 2 x 60min follow up coaching sessions);
• 10h - £1200 MEN and WOMEN (60 min initial coaching session, the teaching of meditation, Taoist practices to enhance sexuality, rituals to enhance intimacy, 4h bodywork session, refreshments);

Couple sessions:

• 4-6h - £450. Profound teaching to enhance intimacy and love, meditation and practices for better sex, tantric or erotic massage techniques.

About bodywork sessions:

Techniques used in bodywork will be chosen based on clients’ needs.

The session may include: Tantric Journey massage, Emotional detox, Taoistic massage, Vortex healing, Kashmiri massage, Shamanic healing, sexual de-armoring, trauma release, empowerment of consent an boundaries, meditation, tantric rituals, work with intimacy.

My sessions are strongly influenced by non-dualistic approaches in meditation and conscious relaxation. I do not use forceful techniques and clients are invited to make a conscious choice in how deep they want to go into the release. Sessions are client-based and no actions are taken without client consent.

Teaching and supervision sessions

Teaching / Supervision session - 1h - £55-75

Teachings: Indian Tantra, Tao or Kashmiri Shivaism meditations, techniques for sexual sublimation, sensual massage or tantric healing bodywork.

Supervision offered for tantric healers and bodyworkers based on a case by case basis.

IMPORTANT NOTE: A non-refundable deposit is required to book a session on a bank account or via PayPal. Please note, I don't accept same-day appointments.