Expand Your Window of Tolerance to Heal Trauma
Tantric healing therapy can help clients to identify defence states in the body by learning to recognise signs of mobilisation into fight flight, or immobilisation into freeze.
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My name is Tatiana. I offer tantric massage and somatic sex therapy for individuals and couples in Teesside, London and online. My work supports relaxation, pleasure, intimacy and sexual wellbeing, and is always held with care, clarity and consent.
My practice sits across two connected pathways. Tantric massage focuses on pleasure, relaxation and embodied presence through conscious touch. Somatic sex therapy offers a more therapeutic approach for those experiencing sexual, emotional or relational difficulties. Some people come primarily for one pathway, while others move between both over time.
Across all sessions, I work slowly and responsively, prioritising safety, pacing and clear communication.
Tantric Massage
Tantric massage supports relaxation, pleasure and a deeper connection with the body.
This work may support:
Sessions can be tailored for men, women or couples, depending on your intentions and experience.
For men, this may include learning to separate orgasm from ejaculation and exploring arousal in a less performance-driven way. For women, the focus often involves slowing down, awakening sensuality and releasing tension. For couples, tantric massage can support intimacy, conscious touch and shared pleasure.
Somatic Sex Therapy
Somatic sex therapy offers a therapeutic pathway for working with sexuality, intimacy and the nervous system.
This work may support:
Sessions may include body-based approaches such as boundaries and consent work, breath, de-armouring and therapeutic touch, where appropriate and by clear consent.
Sessions are adapted for individuals and couples of all genders. With men, the work may explore performance anxiety, erectile or ejaculatory difficulties and disconnection from sensation. With women, it often supports low desire, pelvic tension, or difficulty feeling pleasure or reaching orgasm. With couples, somatic sex therapy can help address mismatched desire, communication difficulties and long-held relational patterns.
Sessions may be clothes-on or clothes-off, depending on what feels appropriate and supportive, and are always guided by consent and careful pacing.
Online Work & Supporting Therapies
For those who prefer to work online, are not ready for hands-on work, or want additional tools for integration, I offer online sessions and supporting therapies.
Online work may include:
Locations & Pricing
Sessions are offered in Teesside (TS13) and London (NW2), with online sessions available.
Prices range from £80–£425, depending on session type and length.
For full details, please see my website (google Tantric Bodywork Tatiana Aitken).
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