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Tatiana Aitken

 Saltburn-by-the-Sea, United Kingdom
 London, United Kingdom

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About me

My name is Tatiana and I offer Tantric bodywork sessions in North Yorkshire/ Teesside and London areas. These are for individuals and couples. 

Over the past decade I have studied, practised and explored many different aspects of health, happiness and sexuality. I am a qualified nutritional advisor, psychosexual therapist and Certified Tantric Journey Educator, and have completed numerous trainings with the Human Awareness Institute, International Society of Temple Arts, Ipsalu Tantra, and the Art of Living. I have been facilitating Tantra workshops in the North East of England since 2015 and have a lot of experience of interacting and working with people from all walks of life. 

I treat each client with love and respect, and help each one on their individual journey. No two people are the same, and treatment plans reflect this, being based on each unique person's requirements.

Some of the reasons why clients come to see me include getting help with overcoming sexual dysfunction, expanding capacity for pleasure, releasing tension from the physical body, overcoming trauma, relaxation and more. Please see below for more information on treatments.

Treatments for Men

These include help with:

  • Premature ejaculation
  • Erectile dysfunction
  • Inhibited ejaculation
  • Love and intimacy issues
  • Learning to expand the orgasmic response
  • Releasing stress and tension from the body
  • Overcoming anxiety, depression, low self-esteem

A prostate and Lingam massage is offered as part of the session. Please note there is no deliberate ejaculation in the sessions. Instead, we work together to re-direct the sexual energy inwards and upwards. I help clients to learn to better understand their orgasmic response and to separate orgasm from ejaculation.

Treatments for Women

These include help with:

  • Pain and discomfort in the pelvic area/ Yoni
  • Vaginismus
  • Lack of arousal
  • Love and intimacy issues
  • Releasing stress and tension from the body
  • Overcoming anxiety, depression, low self-esteem
  • Inability to feel pleasure

A Yoni massage is offered as part of the session. When the client is ready, she will be offered the option of experiencing Amrita release, or female ejaculation.

Treatments for Couples

These include help with:

  • Re-connecting or connecting more deeply with each other
  • Learning techniques for improved intimacy and love-making
  • Learning techniques for healing and pleasuring each other

Couples are taught connection rituals, full body massage skills and prostate/ Lingam and Yoni massage. You will be taught various techniques and exercises for enhancing intimacy and connection.


3 hours £350

4 hours £400

£80 / 60 mins or £115 / 90 mins for online & face to face talking only sessions

Please note shorter or longer sessions may be available by request. Some concessions available for the low waged, please ask.

More information

Please contact me directly for more information or to book a session, and see my website listed at the top of this page.

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Phone number: 07778340823


Saltburn-by-the-Sea, United Kingdom

Fee: £350-400
I am based around a five minute drive outside of Saltburn-by-the-Sea, TS12

London, United Kingdom

Fee: £350-400
I am based in Bermondsey, SE16, right by the river


  • She is fantastic , and her aim and heart is focused on the spiritual and what might be called
    healing for others.

  • Tatiana has something magical about her. If, like me, it takes a little time to relax and really feel her energy and being, its worth taking that time. She has many depths and will journey with you somewhere deep. I suggest you book a session and see for yourself

  • The work was very good. Upon reflection now, a few days after the massage the level of professionalism becomes clearer. Each detail of the massage is explained before commencement and this helps to create an environment of trust and compassion. Throughout the session I felt fully involved in a healing process.

    Seamus C.
  • Tatiana was wonderful in her energy. I felt very calm and sweet energy all the time. I felt she had a wealth of experience in this space. She gave her up completely and always be in present. I really got lot out of the session. Her articulations of techniques and about practices were very simple and easily consumable. Overall a great

  • Tatiana is a skilled practitioner with strong intuition, deep love and compassion and a true professional. She has unbelievable physical strength combined with loving tenderness in just the right proportions. She is very open and easy to talk to, and this is highly useful in promoting learning from the experience.

    Marc H.
  • Tatiana is very gentle and caring. Her touch is very healing, I believe she is a professional in what she does. I would definitely reccommend her to a friend.

    Julija, London
  • Tatiana is an amazing human being and a compassionate, caring and extremely skilled professional body worker. The massage she offered me was one of the best I have ever received, and I had quite a few over the years. I had several very intense emotional moments during the session. Tatiana was simply amazing at holding the space, feeling my energy, opening up to meet my emotions and feeling exactly what I needed in each moment. I was astonished by how profoundly and beautifully she was able to do all that. I wholeheartedly recommend Tatiana to anyone wanting to experience a deep, connected, aware and fully present massage.

  • Tatiana is a highly skilled and dedicated practitioner who carries out her work with great attention to detail and the needs of the client. She holds the space with remarkable integrity, empathy and professionalism. Everything is carefully explained and negotiated and as her client I always felt safe and fully in control of my choices. I felt in extremely safe and nurturing hands and left feeling empowered and extremely peaceful.

  • Tatiana is not only skilled at the body work, her ability to ask the right questions to deepen the quality of the work is brilliant, she has helped me move through so many things, physically and emotionally not only though the body work, but also by facilitating so well with instruction when trauma comes up. She is an amazingly skilled practitioner and deeply loving, holding and caring. Its an amazing experience to work with Her and one which is actually life transforming.

  • She is a kind and appreciate practitioner. Who listens and validates all comments made.

  • Tatiana has an amazing touch, calm and confident, her words full of care and wisdom. Her session broke walls and opened myself up for new experiences, and was enriching from beginning to end.

    Software engineer from Gateshead
  • Tatiana is the most skillful practitioner I have ever known. She holds the space with such care, compassion and safety that it allows whatever needs to come up to come up. Tatiana can hold really challenging emotions with such skill, and the safety that you need, coupled with such profound gentleness and compassion. Tatiana is an immense gift to the world, and to me and I have found the work she does so deeply healing and nourishing. I wish I had worked with Tatiana years ago!

  • Tatiana is totally welcoming and professional. She explains everything before the treatment and invites questions. The space is quiet and has such a beautiful atmosphere. I highly recommend Tatiana as a tantric massage practitioner.

  • Tatiana is a brilliant, skilful practitioner. She is the most caring and compassionate person I have ever worked with and her skills were so intuitive, loving and holding. The space Tatiana held was so safe it enabled me to be fully seen for the first time in my life, and allowed me to release pain and deep trauma that I have been holding all my life and all the time she held a loving, safe and giving space. Tatiana was such a skilled guide, helping me to process really
    deep things and giving me permission, guidance and reassurance all the way though, which now have given me a map for in areas of challenge, and a knowing how to handle things in this area.

  • Tatiana is a great therapist, caring, compassionate and a great bodyworker

  • The session with Tatiana Aitken has given me so much! Being sexologist, I thought I knew a lot about my sexuality, I knew it would be a pleasure, but I didn't know the session would have such a healing effect. Thanks to her caring attitude, aware and very focused on the present moment eyes and confident body, I could feel very safe from the very beginning of the session. I appreciated very much the detailed talk at the beginning of the session - I could share my most important needs, what led me to work on them afterwards. Overall, since the session, I have been feeling definitely more liberated, more true and connected to myself. I feel I have more right to be myself (which wasn't the case before the session). I am very much grateful I could benefit from Tatiana's loving attitude and very professional skills.


    Marta Kosinska / sexologist, psychologist / Gdansk, Poland
  • I really appreciated Tatiana’s care and attitude. She had my wellbeing as her priority, I felt she was completely
    focused on me. We had an emotional bond hugging during the session, I felt very safe and cared the whole time.

    Software engineer from Gateshead

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