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Kate Elena

 Koh Phangan / Chiang Mai / Bangkok, Thailand
 London , United Kingdom
 Berlin, Germany

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Only from the Heart, can you touch the Sky’ (Rumi)

For sessions in SE Asia, please contact Kate directly via WhatsApp: +447806489482 or email: for availability and prices.

Kate is an experienced professional Tantric practitioner and trainer, offering a holistic and therapeutic approach based on authentic Tantric and Taoist practices. She supports men with a range of sexual and intimacy issues, with expanding their sexuality, and bringing more love, vitality and wellbeing into their lives and relationships. 

Many people experience difficulties with sexuality and intimacy issues at some point during their life, which can include emotional or physical trauma from childhood. Kate offers a professional and caring space to help clients reconnect with their body and emotions, and to let go of what is no longer serving them. She offers a trauma aware practice, and works within a code of Ethical Practice, which includes informed consent and client confidentiality.

She also teaches Tantric-Taoist sublimation techniques, supporting men with cultivating and harnessing sexual life-force energy (‘Jing’ or ‘Chi’) for self-expansion, healing and long-term health. Simple Tantric-Taoist practices can be learned by people from all backgrounds. They are also an important (and often unexplored) part of yoga and martial arts practices. 

One-to-one client sessions offer a unique and effective approach combining specialist Tantric-Taoist bodywork, coaching and (optional) homework for clients. Vortex Energy Healing Therapy can be included in sessions, by request.

Kate also offers online coaching sessions. For further information please see the different session options below, and client reviews.

Kate has been leading group retreats, and training students in this field since 2016 in Europe and Asia. Yoga plays an important part in her life, both as a daily practice and life philosophy. She has studied with inspirational teachers worldwide including: Daniel Odier, Marlese de Cocheret, Clive Sheridan, Martin Beaudoin and Adyashanti.

Kate is Co-Founder of the Tantric Healing Therapy platform.

Kate supports men with:

  • Erectile dysfunction: Identifying and treating underlying causes through bodywork, coaching and self-practice exercises
  • Premature ejaculation: Treating both physiological and psychological factors
  • Emotional and physical traumas, which impact intimacy and sexuality, including sexual trauma. Kate will arrange a time to speak together about about additional therapeutic support that may be needed
  • Prostate health: Helping men with maintaining a healthy prostate gland and with prostate conditions, including post-prostate cancer
  • Strict cultural conditioning around sexuality: Replacing shame and guilt with empowered sexuality
  • Stress management: Tantric-Taoist massage for relaxation and energising the body
  • Sexual addictions: Looking at underlying causes of addictions in a space free from judgement 
  • Sexual inexperience: Building confidence with intimacy and sexuality
  • Ending of a relationship: Support with moving forward after relationship break-ups
  • Support with chronic health conditions: Nurturing bodywork and Tantric-Taoist techniques to relax and help energise the body
  • Learning Taoist-Tantric practices to separate orgasm and ejaculation: Simple practices to support longevity and virility


For sessions in SE Asia, please contact Kate directly via WhatsApp: +447806489482 or email: for availability and prices.

- Free 30-min consultation via Skype, WhatsApp or Zoom for new clients.

- Introductory session: Clothes-on Tantric Healing Bodywork and Coaching: 3 hours, £200 (UK fee)

Foundation sessions are required for some clients who have significant trauma, or prefer to remain clothed during the bodywork. Includes professional consultation and an introduction to Tantric-Taoist practices. 

- Intermediate session: Tantric Healing Bodywork with Oil and Coaching: 4 hours, £300 (UK fee)

An intermediate session bringing clients deeper into connection with their body using oil-based bodywork. Suitable for clients who prefer to receive Tantric bodywork without genital massage. Includes professional consultation and an introduction to Tantric-Taoist practices. 

- Therapeutic Prostate Massage: 3 hours, £250 (UK fee)

Ideal for men who need regular treatments to manage stress and maintain prostate health. Includes professional consultation, deep bodywork for the back of the body, and the therapeutic prostate massage treatment.

- Tantric Discovery Sessions for Men: Tantric Bodywork and Coaching: 5 hours, £350 (£300 for 3-session package. UK fee)

This session focuses on authentic Tantric learning and practices for men. It begins with explanation and questions, followed by Tantric-Taoist bodywork. The focus is to bring clients deeply into connection with their own body, as self-discovery and self-awareness is the foundation of Tantric male practices. The session includes prostate massage, and supporting clients with learning how to manage and expand their sexual energy by separating orgasm and ejaculation. Ideal for yoga and martial arts practitioners who are learning the science of Jing-Chi (sexual energy) flow in the body, and for other people interested in genuine Tantra.
*Please note: This session does not include 2-way touch

- Therapeutic Session: Tantric Bodywork and Coaching session: 5 hours, £350 (£300 for 3-session package / concessions available for people who's income has been affected by Covid-19)

This full-length session includes professional consultation, a long sequence of Tantric-Taoist bodywork, and genital massage (prostate, testicle and lingam massage) with a focus on therapeutic, healing and tantric learning outcomes.



- Tantric rituals / Couple massage techniques: 4 hours, £350
Kate offers sessions for couples to help deepen their soul connection, and to learn simple bodywork for mutual care and to enhance intimacy.


In person, or via WhatsApp or Zoom:

Online sessions include full consultation (an important part of in-person sessions), and can include support for erectile challenges through learning Tantric-Taoist pelvic floor techniques and other practices for self-healing and empowerment. (Please note: online sessions are fully clothed).

- 60 min - £60
- 90 min - £80
- 5 sessions - £300 (60 min), £400 (90 min) - book 5 sessions get one FREE


- Kate is unable to offer sessions on the same day as an appointment is requested.
- A deposit is required prior to in-person session. This is refundable in case of illness. The fee for online sessions is payable in advance.
- She practices within a Code of Ethical Practice including client confidentiality and non-discrimination.
- Tantric Healing Therapy practitioners do not offer sexual services.

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Koh Phangan / Chiang Mai / Bangkok, Thailand

Fee: 5-15,000 (concessions by request)

London , United Kingdom

Notting Hill (Central London)
Fee: £200-£350

Berlin, Germany

Fee: 375 euros


  • I have felt so earthed, connected and in balance today.... It has made me realise how out of kilter  I was... Just know that I will continue to hold such a thankful space in my heart for you, and will not be surprised when you come to mind as the days and weeks and roll on, and at those times, I will give thanks for you and your gifts, and ask that you keep on being resourced to be the fantastic channel that you are.

    John (London)
    August 2021
  • I'm completely amazed at what I had just experienced. I’m looking forward to future Tantric Healing sessions with Kate and the resulting benefits from it that I am starting to discover! Kate is a very compassionate and caring individual who worked with me to enable myself to experience new physical and spiritual feelings. During our session together, I felt totally safe and comfortable and cared for. After the session I felt blissful, happy, and content.


    Vance (USA)
    Aug 2021
  • Working with Kate has been wonderful. She is attentive, thoughtful, kind, and very present. I feel seen, understood, and relaxed enough to open up about some deeper, tougher parts of my life. I initially felt nervous about visiting a Tantric massage therapist but the sessions are gentle and healing, and I'm always in charge of the pace.

    I've noticed an increased sense of ease in my body and a deeper connection to my sexual energy. This is bringing with it an even fuller sense of "ok-ness" and relaxation about being human in this world. 

    Jerry (London, after 3 sessions)
    July 2021
  • Dear Kate

    I don't know how to thank you for your sincere and caring attitude. The advice you put together in the email is priceless. I've made a summary list of the items and am planning to get every single one of them done. 

    I'm absolutely willing to continue the learning in the coming weeks. 

    Malik (London)
    May 2021
  • Kate is a true professional in her field, inviting, polite and welcoming in order for you to feel comfortable in this vulnerable process that is Tantric Healing Therapy.

    Her soft words and gentle touch, ushers you effortlessly into the Tantric world and puts you at ease right from the start of the session, in order to prepare your body to feel all the sensations and get all the benefits of this healing process, while totally relaxing your mind.

    For me personally it was a very transformative experience and a massive addition to the work I have been doing with other practices like psychotherapy and yoga. It was very empowering in every sense and it made me feel maturity, independence, confidence and deep connection with my sexuality. The verbal communication was also excellent and really helpful, before, during and after the session.

    I would highly recommend her!

    Lexi (Nicosia)
    Dec 2020
  • I had a wonderful 5 hour therapy and bodywork session with Kate. I am at a place in my life where I am doing a lot of self exploration and this combination of therapy, healing and bodywork appealed to me, even if I was still a little sceptical of the claims of emotional release.

    Well I am sceptical no longer, Kate was able to make me feel so welcome, safe and secure that I was able to be vulnerable. Through the bodywork on my back I was able to connect to deep memories of physical and emotional pain, which I felt safe to then release and process. I now have a strong desire to learn more about tantra and spirituality. Thank you Kate.

    Neil (London)
    Oct 2020
  • My new partner is a girl that I met on a conscious dance floor and was seeing early this year, but due to my wounds and traumas, I couldn’t meet her in the place she was at. Thanks to this work and the healing, I’ve come out here with a truly open heart and am SOOO in love and so happy. I’m staying grounded and doing my daily practice....I’m absolutely committed and couldn’t not have done it without doing all this work honestly. 

    Marc (London)
    Oct 2020
  • My first session with Kate was an amazing experience. A lot happened.

    Sex has always been a problem for me due to a trauma that I experienced during my childhood. I still working on it, but Kate has provided a very safe place where I could share all my fears and insecurities without been judged.

    I know that there is a lot of work ahead but I am so happy that I came across her. Now I am not feeling hopeless anymore and I am actually very excited for what is yet to come.

    Thank you.

    Carlos (Brazil)
    Sept 2020
  • The session with Kate was an amazing healing experience. I honestly didn't know much what to expect but the session went far beyond any idea I could have. Since I met Kate she gave me a whole sense of trust so I gave myself openly to fully receive without controlling or expecting any outcome. I felt the support and care from Kate which helped me a lot to relax.

    I discovered things about myself and the way I relate to my sexuality that surprised me gratefully. Kate was very mindful during the session to always check in with me about my boundaries. That made me feel very safe in her hands and presence. I think the safe container she builds is one of the most important keys to having such powerful results.

    I couldn't recommend her more!! Thank you so much Kate!

    Raphael (Argentina)
    August 2020
  • Thank you so much Kate for receiving such a wonderful opportunity to heal myself with tantra. I could heal my past trauma, especially relating to the relationship with a female and a past sexual experience. I could trust Kate from my heart.. She explained me the process carefully how she will do a treatment and we confirmed our boundary. Her altitude for work is really professional. I was able to confess to her a past trauma and she held me with full acceptance. It was such a beautiful moment...This experience was so intense that it took a couple of days to integrate. I feel my attitude to females change because of Kate, my life will change for the better.

    Shun (Japan)
    March 2020
  • Many thanks for the session yesterday which was absolutely wonderful and nurturing.

    I am feeling good so far, feeling at peace and relaxed. It will be Interesting to see how i feel in next few days. Thank you for all the recommendations, which is very kind of you.

    Bhav (London)
    July 2019
  • Kate

    What a wonderful evening thank you so much. I have begun a whole new journey...Wow. I have tingled all day..! Thank you so much for being so kind and sharing

    Jack (London)
    July 2019
  • My session with Kate was my first experience of Tantric Massage, and Tantra in general. We spent some time talking at first, Kate explained what the session would involve and how I might feel, and she is a compassionate listener, allowing me to open up and talk frankly about issues around sex, love, emotions, sexual performance that I had not addressed or found a forum to discuss for a long time. Being able to speak these thoughts out loud and share them with a woman, without any agenda, was a real privilege and allowed me to feel a very strong emotional and physical trust with her. 

    Sexual desire and emotional connection, which were so important to me in my 20s, had become totally neglected after 10 years of marriage and kids. It felt like a really important step to take the time for myself and find those feelings again.  

    I imagine that this is a fairly common experience for men (and women), it is one of the quiet taboos in a relationship, and so being able to talk and physically express these feelings openly was a huge release.

    Kate has a very strong physical empathy that made the massage an intense and extraordinary range of sensations, never rushed, in fact I completely lost track of time. With me she identified the area of my chest around my heart as an important centre of feeling and I can still feel the sensation and warm feeling around my heart a week later.

    Thank you for being so generous with your time and spirit. 

    Tim (London)
    April 2019
  • Kate was recommended to me by a therapist who helped me through a severe life crisis 15 years ago, one caused by a long protracted marriage breakdown and divorce.

    I thought for a long time that I had got over this but recently I realised that there was long term deep physical and emotional damage that my body memory was still carrying.

    intermittent erectile dysfunction, fear of permanent intimate relationships, and periodic depression and anxiety. I have a demanding and successful career and this masked my inner trauma.

    Kate does whole body work that releases blocked energy and pain, and this is carried out in a healing combination of professionalism, a high level of skill in her craft, and genuine heartfelt care

    Nic (Sussex)
    April 2019
  • Each time I am more blown away by your work and how you can guide the energy wherever your intuition tells you and uncovering surprises and deep blocks in a million different ways.

    Richard (London)
    April 2019
  • Dear Kate, I wanted to say thank you for such a wonderful therapy treatment today.

    I felt so comfortable, completely at ease and trusting of you due to your careful, kind, tender, supportive and open way of connecting with me. The therapy itself was so special. Your bodywork and your holding and presence allowed me to delve into deep wounds that really needed my attention. I have felt a shift and lightness since. I’m still floating on cloud nine! Thank you so much, such an amazing experience

    London, March 2019
  • It was wonderful meeting you and thank you so much for a beautiful evening.  We thoroughly enjoyed every moment.  Strangely when we got out of the car, our legs could barely carry us as we were both so relaxed!  We have had lots of loving moments since. Thank you once again and we hope that your busy week ahead with your students goes well. Warmest regards.

    Natalie and partner (couple session, London)
    November 2018
  • Thank you very much again for such a long, profound and amazingly powerful session......There was a part of me that was thinking it would take me longer to release with Tantric healing sessions

    Fabrizio (Spain)
    August 2018
  • We felt really at ease during the session and extremely relaxed afterwards. Thank you again.

    Daisy and partner (London)
    July 2018
  • I've had 2 sessions with Kate, and immediately, I felt in amazing hands. I say this, because I am pretty sensitive to the energy of anyone I don't know well physically touching me. But a few minutes into talking with Kate made me feel at ease, and trusting. The sessions have been amazing and shocking, in that, not only how knowledgeable and skillful she was in her bodywork, how she kept me feeling safe, cared for, and loved, but also in how much emotional release I needed. I would absolutely and highly recommend Kate for anyone needing a session! Thank you again:)

    Roman (Singapore)
    June 2018
  • I booked an appointment with Kate as part of my self improvement journey. My experience was amazing and I learnt a lot about myself and the steps I could take to develop further. Kate is an mazing person. She made me feel at ease really quickly and clearly explained how the session would progress and what my experiences could be. She is very intuitive, with an incredible ability to get to core issues and blocks. She also combines a welcome mix of empathy and assertiveness which completely suited my style. She also adds in a healthy dose of kindness and warmth which all contributed the making the session memorable. A few weeks on, I feel i Have made some steps forward in my life and the areas I need to focus on. Kate, thanks for helping me find my voice again! Peace and Joy


    Hope to see you again beautiful lady. You touched my heart.

    Ekani (London)
    April 2018
  • An amazing woman! An opening experience. I felt safe with Kate to discuss my goals, and previous trauma. Her healing hands and heart allowed me to dive deeper into the issues in my tissues, find links between them, and an unprecedented unravelling occurred.

    Marc (Australia)
    January 2018
  • Please continue to help others with your insight and kindness

    Anthony (Berks)
    December 2017
  • Just a quick note to say thanks for your time and the session on Saturday. We both learnt a lot and have already put some of it into practice. You made us both feel at ease and able to relax. Thanks again.

    John and Sandra, couple session (London)
    October 2017
  • I was initially nervous about the Tantric Journey experience as I was unsure what to expect. Kate's introduction and calmness put me at my ease and as a Therapist, I had a feeling that some emtions might be released.

    I can truly say, that nothing could have prepared me for the deep emoional release that I experienced - and the memories that arose that I had no idea had caused such deep rooted stress.

    A combination of the deep massage that released the tension from the body, the rocking, the breathing and letting out of  "pain" through vocal releasing was a truly wonderful experience.

    Kate created such a supportive, caring, and safe environment that I felt completely as ease to open up to the deeply held emotions. At the end, I felt so much lighter, completely relaxed, "standing tall" with a sense of serenity about me.

    Any anxiety and stress that I had, had completely gone. What I had also noted, was that memories that would have previously triggered me into stress, now didn't - as if there was now a clean slate to create new behavioural responses - such a brillant opportunity and feeling.

    August 2017, London
  • Thanks so much for everything Kate. It was brilliant. I am totally committed to this process. I know its the way forward for me, and as soon as I figure out what I’m doing about this procedure, I will be in touch to start what we talked about, coming regularly to really make some changes.

    Kris (London)
    July 2017
  • I experienced such a wide range of emotions since the session. Anger, love, anxiety, sadness, gratitude... So much and with such intensity within the last couple days. And this was exactly what I needed - I am much less numb and much more aware of my emotions and body, and my body is feeling much more free to express itself and let out what it needs to.

    Thank you so much for the love and healing. I am so grateful to have had that experience with you and hope you continue to spread your gifts with the world. I can't wait to learn from you in December and hope one day I can spread the same love and healing to those who need it as well.

    Tim (USA)
    July 2017
  • There was in me a feeling of total and unconditional acceptance of the present moment. My heart and my whole being were basking in a state of beatitude. We are reaching the limits of words here, but if I have to describe this state I can only say that it was an emotional compound of, simultaneously, divine bliss, absolute and total acceptance of the moment, and the bubbly joy of a very young child. And it was timeless.

    During Kate's massage I also had insights, new insights that decades of meditation practice hadn't had revealed, of some parts of my body being emotionally numb, or having been emotionally 'anaesthetized', other parts not wanting to be touched, others wanting very much to be touched. I was discovering myself. 

    I also felt that, during Kate's massage, I was emotionally shedding, or more precisely 'vomiting', at a very subtle level the deep-rooted conditioning I went through in an earlier part of my life. 

    And then there was love. All the time during the many hours of Kate's massage. The love that cares intensely. The love that is permanent, even if consciously we do not feel it. The love that only wants the welfare of the other, and doesn't ask anything in return. It just is. It just loves. All the time. It cannot be stopped. The love that only knows loves, and nothing else. The love that doesn't depend on anything, and is completely self-sufficient. 

    The love that is beyond duality. 

    Without this love there is no Tantra, or genuine Tantra.

    John-Pierre (Chiang Mai)
    July 2017
  • Thank you Kate for the 1-2-1 experience! It was such an exhilarating moment – Never in my life had I released a surge of energy in such a long loud voice that could have brought the roof down. And in the afternoon session during the group practice, your gentle loving touch brought out the stuck emotion of “abandonment” from deep within my being.

    Overall, my experience was calming & therapeutic. I am totally inspired by the manner of your work!! You hold a space of calmness & safety without me feeling any guilt or shame.

    I strongly recommend Kate to any man who has not had a Tantric journey experience to step up and forward to experience the humanness of his being. Thank you Kate, for such boundless compassionate love!!!

    July 2017, Chiang Mai
  • I felt a warmth broadcast from my prostate gland, invading the body in a soothing moment of ecstasy that made me shed tears of joy in sorrow. I found my freedom by the living feeling of divine pleasure. Accept it without resistance, it gives way for a more open life with love. I gave my trust to Kate: she opened the door to peace in my own divinity

    Philippe (France)
    June 2017
  • How beautifully Kate worked on me and created a safe environment... I could let go and release years of pain and sorrow hidden somewhere deep… that became possible for me only because I felt cared for, I felt respected and safe

    Anand (India)
    June 2017
  • I just wanted to say THANK YOU for our session and holding a beautiful space for me to experience and to learn about myself, what's possible! One of my biggest learnings was to use the microcosmic orbit during the session to manage the upward energy waves...and in the meantime, focusing on the breath and feeling the pleasure of the multitude of forces. The learning still stays with me strong sitting here on a sunny winter morning in Sydney. So thank you again, it was really beautiful 

    Rob, Australia
    June 2017
  • I entered the therapy room and was immediately immersed with a sense of sacred calmness.The space Kate created was done with an extremely high consideration for my comfort and relaxation.Throughout the whole session, her soothing voice allowed me to drop deeper into a state of openness. It was actually like another realm really. Kate sometimes gently informed me of what she was about to do, and at all times I felt great integrity and confidence with her practical and emotional skill, within such an intimate environment. After the session I experienced a tangible increase in my level of energy, and my stuck-ness had dissolved. I would highly recommend her for anybody wishing to remove deeply blocked energies, particularly around the base chakra area. It was very beautiful, thank you

    Craig (Australia)
    June 2017
  • The therapy i have been waiting all my life for. In every moment I felt safe, guided, protected and loved. This trance like space that was so carefully constructed was the space needed for my body to let go of pain it had held onto more than 30 years. I am eternally grateful that somebody would devote their life to being a channel and a guide for such intense and effective healing and I promptly booked two more sessions. My personal story is one of abuse, so to recognise that i am numb and closed and to begin to open the door to my pain through love and trust and for it to be so effective within the first session I was left humbled, grateful and extremely internal. Thank you Kate, cant wait for our next session.

    April 2017, London

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