Tantric Massage therapy

Tantric massage is a hands-on practice that differs from traditional massage because it uses the tantric essence of shakti, otherwise known as energy. Tantric massage focuses on using sexual energy to achieve a higher state of consciousness,  and has been proven to help a whole range of medical condition.

This form of massage helps removing blockages modern people face - physical, mental, emotional, sexual or even psychosomatic.

Many times tantric massage includes working with sexual energy while opening the energy channels, expressing and releasing emotions, bringing awareness and elevating it to the sense of freedom, to the feminine and/or masculine qualities.
Most of the times it includes Lingam or Yoni massage (sacred touch therapy of the male/female sexual organs); the nature of those will depend on what the client needs at that moment.

Although tantric massage seeks pleasure and an orgasm can be a part of the process, it is not presented as a goal to be achieved. The ultimate goal of this practice, therefore, is the generation and management of an energy capable of bringing the person to a state of consciousness and fulfillment. Tantra stimulates erogenous zones, which helps a person to deeper his/her self-knowledge through sensations.

One of the key pillars of Tantra is self-acceptance, and only by accepting himself as a human being one can enjoy the benefits of this practice.


Tantric massage benefits.

There are so many benefits to this practice. I can name a few:

  • Health and vitality improvement
  • Treatment of common sexual dysfunctions of men and women
  • Blocked (or stuck) emotions release
  • Cultivation of happiness and joy
  • Ignition of a spiritual awakening
  • Improvement of orgasm and pleasure
  • Raising up the kundalini energy
  • Clearing the mind
  • Stress reduction
  • Relaxation and a feeling of well being


Tantric massage tips:

  • Do not work towards a specific goal
  • Set aside some time
  • Respect boundaries
  • Consider the wishes and desires of the receiver
  • See it as an energetic massage
  • Self love and  consciousness  are very important
  • Practice makes it perfect
  • Pay attention to a connection in between the sexual organ and the heart
  • Provide feedback and integrate he experience
  • Always keep in mind - Tantric massage is more then an sexual satisfaction


Tantric massage oils

A few words about essential olis. 

Essential oils can take your sensual and sexual life to a whole new level of ecstasy. You can use them in a hot bath, in a diffuser in your bedroom or  wherever you have  a tantric massage place, on your skin as perfume, or add it to coconut oil and use it as a massage oil and daily moisturizer

There are several oils that work the best for Tantric massage:


Ylang Ylang

Ylang Ylang is known to elevate sexual energy and increase libido.

It is also a powerful aphrodisiac. Use Ylang Ylang in a diffuser in your bedroom, during your tantric massage session; it is also great for the heart chakra and encourages playfulness, freedom and joy. You can use this oil on your heart chakra as a daily perfume and add it to your diffuser in your room to create a sensual and sexual space.


Geranium oil has a harmonizing effect on the mind and emotions and is known to elevate happiness, love and trust. It’s a powerful oil to use during intimacy and sex because it harmonizes the energy in the room and creates a beautiful space for sensuality, intimacy and deep connection.This oil also promotes connection and grounding in our body and is great to help boost body confidence during sex.

Clary Sage

Clary Sage helps increase sexual desire by decreasing inhibitions, arousing emotions and boosting libido. Clary Sage is also powerful in regulating and balancing hormones in women and great to use during menstruation to ease cramping and mood imbalances.

White Fir

White Fir is a grounding oil that is known as the oil for generational healing. This oil helps clear old beliefs that keep us stuck from moving forward as empowered sexual beings.

Wild Orange

Wild Orange is fresh and uplifting and creates joy, abundance and flow! This oil is renowned for bringing a buzz to the sacral chakra to enhance abundance and creativity and move stagnant or stuck sexual energy.


Lavender reduces anxiety and promotes relaxation and sexual excitement. It is also the oil for communication, so using this will help increase ease around communication and expression of sexual needs and desires. This oil is renowned for creating a calming and safe space for lovers to enjoy deep intimacy and orgasmic states.


Tantric massage books recommended to read


1)Tantric Massage: The Erotic Touch of Love by  Kenneth Ray Stubbs

2)Yoni Massage: Awakening Female Sexual Energy by Michaela Riedl

3)Tantric Massage for Love: A New Level of Awareness of Sex, Love and Health by Fill Sunrik