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Ami works with both women, men and couples to help you experience your highest potential for sexual intimacy and connection with yourself and others.

Through this work she supports you and gives you tools to work through the obstacles in your body. Working towards the amazing space of pleasure and freely flowing sexual energy.

Some of the obstacles we look at and work with can be feeling safe in your body, boundaries, trauma, low libido, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, pain during sex amongst others.

Ami's passion is to work with connection and for her connection starts from the inside. To connect with yourself, to feel your own sensations and pleasures as the foundation to be able to connect with another. What she does is help you to experience how it feels to be in your body, how it feels to connect to your sexual energy and pleasure in your body, not only your genitals.

There are three different ways you can work with Ami:

  • Tantric bodywork
  • Pelvic floor bodywork
  • Sex and intimacy coaching (in person or online)

Tantric bodywork works on your physical, emotional and energetic level. Helping you feel and listen to your body, become more grounded, feel your emotions, work through trauma’s and connect with your sexual energy.

Pelvic floor bodywork is mainly for women, but Ami does work with some men as well. The pelvic floor work is an approach for specific issues that may include taking into consideration emotional and rest of body experiences.

  • Issues for women could be tension in the vulva, vagina and pelvic floor, nerve pain, or wanting to increase sensitivity and pleasure in the vagina, birth trauma or scaring.
  • For men tightness of muscles in the buttocks and around the anus, issues with getting or maintaining an erection, premature ejaculation, prostate issues, nerve issues and wanting increased sensation.

In coaching sessions Ami uses a mixture of her tantric and energetic work together with the sex and relationship coaching modality she has studied with the Somatica Institute. The coaching method is based on vulnerability, mindfulness and compassion with a focus on embodiment, sexuality and relationships.

The Somatica coaching method is generally a very hands-on method working with physical and emotional awareness, connection and touch, that merges perfectly her tantric practices. However, it works magic over Zoom as well.

For more information about my work, check out my website

All new or potential clients start with a free 30 min consultation over Zoom. The consultation is for you to get all your questions answered about a session, as well as Ami being able to fully understand what you are after and if she is able to support you in that area.

If you are interested in working with Ami or would like to have more information start by booking your consultation here,


About Ami

Amongst many other passions, over 10years ago Ami trained as a massage therapist specialising in deep tissue and remedial whilst completing her master’s degree in Chemical Engineering. In the past few years, her journey of personal development led to ‘Childhood de-conditioning’, Tantra and Somatica. They have given her amazing tools to be able to see traumas in others and help hold space for that in her sessions.

Doing the inner work, her sensitivity to her own and other people’s energies blossomed, this realisation of how much she had numbed off during her life sparked a desire to help others regain their mojo. She left Sweden to deepen her tantric practice, reconnect with her massage training and start working as a tantric bodyworker and sex coach.

Based on her past experiences and knowledge, she can provide both a scientific understanding of the body and at the same time often feel what is going on for you in your body.

Currently living in Sydney, Australia. If you live elsewhere, you are only a free zoom consult away.



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Ami really knows what she is doing. She helped me to feel my body, my sexual energy and relaxation in a way I never felt before. I am amazed that such a change in myself is possible in such a short amount of time. 

Felix Haub Hannover, Web developer and Entrepreneur 
2019, Germany

Ami is very intuitive and extremely present. In session she noticed so many non-verbal signs and was following them, sometimes by actions, sometimes by just speaking, which gave sense that everything she does is not by the script but based on what she sees and feels. That felt incredibly powerful and made the session amazing from the first minutes. 
The trust I felt towards her made all the communication before and during the session very easy and allowed the session to go into depth, revealing quite a few details and patterns of mine that were overlooked in our thoughtful mind-based life. 

Sasha, Bodyworker
2019, Koh Pangan

I had one session with Ami and with no hesitation would recommend anyone to work with her. She explained very well how the session would go, and what she thought would be best for me as what each person needs is different, and I could tell she was using her very in tune intuition to make these decisions for our session.  During the session Ami held the space so strongly and really helped me to let go and surrender to whatever needed to happen and come out of my body. She used certain techniques to access points in my body where I had been unknowingly holding a lot of trauma and helped me to push through the blocks and barriers to finally face it and let it go fully. She guided me through this intense letting go of emotion with love and nurturing but also with a strength and vigour which is exactly what I needed.  I feel that I made a lot of personal progress with this session. I was able to deal with issues that I wasn’t aware were influencing me, and since the session I am feeling lighter in general, positive and hopeful. Thank you Ami!!

Lexi H. Teacher, Chiang Mai 
2019 Koh Phangan

I had very high expectations before the session with Ami but they were exceeded, almost beyond what I could imagine. The care, presence and holding she brought to the session was truly heart-felt, this combined with her magical hands made the experience profoundly healing. Crying, screaming, sobbing, raging and laughing hysterically for no apparent reason at all (i.e. nothing to understand intellectually about what happens) is very transformative in my opinion. If you have the opportunity to have a session with Ami, you may be in for a life-changing experience! 

Alex, psychologist
Stockholm 2019

Ami created a safe container in which I felt emotionally held, and could relax into her touch. I was amazed by how well tuned in she was and how she intuitively knew what kind of touch was needed in the moment, from firm to gentle. When I needed to express any need or fear in the moment, Ami reacted promptly and with a lot of compassion, which made me feel seen also. The session was both deep and playful, nurturing, and relaxing. At the end of the session I felt very calm and peaceful, my body very open. 

Yves, Sex coach
Koh Phangan 2019

Ami is highly intuitive, skilled, very present and caring when she works on you. I felt well taken care of and can highly recommend a session from her. 

Koh Phangan, 2019

I came to Ami looking for healing in terms of increasing my  sexual confidence and libido. I have had three tantric massages before but this time it was a completely different experience that gave me a much deeper and much more profound healing experience while the other massages I had before were more satisfying in terms of sensual pleasure, this time I could feel a large amount of body and mind related healing taking place which has clearly changed a lot in my body and minds patterns and seems to be sustainable to the overall energy level of my whole body having far more effects than I ever imagined. I am very honored that I had the chance to have made this experience. It was probably the most wonderful treatment I have ever received - not only because of  a lot of things came up that I really needed to release also because it was done by such a compassionate person with so much devotion and respect to my being. I am ever so grateful that I had the chance to have this experience and I can truly recommend to anyone.

Daniel G
Koh Tao, 2019

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